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Remember my ‘Dear Son’ and ‘Dear Dad’ series? PDF Print
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I wrote these two articles in March 2004 and published them in the freeanwar.com website. That was before the launching of Malaysia Today in August the same year. Against the backdrop of the recent Manik Urai by-election maybe it is a good idea to rehash these two articles of five years ago. That would probably give you a better understanding of what happened.

NO HOLDS BARRED

Raja Petra Kamarudin

Dear Son,

I thought I would write you this letter, which I feel is long overdue and should actually have been done much earlier. In light of the present euphoria of the 11th General Elections maybe I should have a man-to-man ‘talk’ with you about some of the realities of life.

No, I am not going to talk about the ‘birds and the bees’, as in these modern times I am sure you could tell me more about that subject. What I want to talk to you about concerns our race, Melayu.

When you came home for your semester breaks, I quietly listened to your rhetoric of freedom of speech, equality of all races, eradication of poverty, and all such notions, without comment. I understand that you are young and are just beginning to open your eyes to what is going on in the world so I thought I would allow you to speak your mind.

Mind you, in my days, I could never speak to your grandfather is such a tone of voice. He would never have tolerated my ‘independent’ views and would regard it as insolence. But that was then and I appreciate the fact that nowadays the young tend to speak their mind so I allowed you to ramble on. Now, however, it is my turn to speak my mind and I hope you too will allow me my right to speak just like how I allowed you yours.

I want to remind you that you are Malay, first and last. Whatever you say and do must be tempered with this in mind. This fact tends to escape you and your idealistic beliefs do not take this into consideration.

You oppose the Umno-led Barisan Nasional because you say it is a corrupt government. You say it does not allow freedom of speech, association and assembly. You say it is undemocratic and despotic. And you go on and on listing everything that you perceive is wrong with it.

I must remind you, however, that this is the same government that gave you, me, your grandfather, an education. Without this government that you despise so much would we be where we are today? We would still be in the kampong planting padi like my grandfather before this.

You are looking for perfection. But perfection does not exist here on earth. Perfection only exists in the afterlife (akhirat) so you will have to wait until you die before you see this perfection. As long as you are on earth you will be faced with imperfections so you will have to learn to live with this situation.

I too would like to see a perfect world; a world filled with justice, equality, freedom, and all those ‘modern’ values you students shout about. But would you be prepared to gain all this at the expense of the Malay race?

I know you worked hard and campaigned for the opposition during the recently concluded general election. And I also know you are terribly frustrated and disappointed with the outcome of the election. I will not hold my punches here. As you said, the opposition won, or could have won, but was robbed of its win through an unfair election system and a biased Election Commission.

I shall not insult your intelligence by denying all this, as I know you are smart enough to see things for what they are. But it is my duty as your father and as a Malay to explain certain things that you have probably overlooked in your zeal of upholding your modern ideas.

You must understand, the Election Commission is run by us Malays. It is there merely to ensure that we Malays retain our political power. You accuse the Election Commission of manipulating the elections and of unfair practices. This has nothing to do with fair or unfair. It is all about ensuring that we Malays do not lose our political power to the non-Malays.

Why do you think Tunku Abdul Rahman kicked Singapore out of Malaysia? Can you imagine what would happen to us Malays if Singapore were today still part of Malaysia? The Chinese would sweep all the seats and we Malays would be reduced to a minority. Can you imagine being a second-class citizen in our own country the way the Malays in Singapore are?

You say you support keADILan because it is a multiracial party that fights for equality for all races. Do you know what keADILan is asking for? How can there be equality for all races? We Malays own this land and the other races are all immigrants. They do not deserve equal rights.

You must remember, when we gained independence in 1957, it was agreed that all these immigrants would be given citizenship as long as the Malays are given special rights and privileges. This is why we have a Ketuanan Melayu policy. The Chinese and Indians agreed to this so we gave them citizenship. Now that they are citizens they demand equal rights. This is a breach of agreement.

If they do not agree to Malays being given special rights and privileges why agree to it in 1957? They should have disagreed then. Then we could have sent them back to India and China. We did not force them to become citizens of this country. They wanted citizenship. And the terms and conditions of their citizenship was discussed and agreed upon. It was a social contract between them and us. How can they now turn around and not agree to it?

And this is what keADILan is fighting for. They are supporting the non-Malays in breaching the agreement made in 1957. An agreement is an agreement. If you want to break it, fine. If you no longer want to honour the agreement, then that is okay. But the clause in that agreement where they get citizenship must also be rescinded. The non-Malays will then have to go back to their own country. After all, no one is forcing them to live here. If they do not like it they can leave. But do not expect us Malays to give up our special rights and privileges, which have already been agreed upon long before independence.

You say the Election Commission cheated. They did not cheat. They just ensured we Malays continue to dominate Malaysian politics till the end of time. Parties like keADILan are dangerous. They pawn the country to the non-Malays just for the sake of political power. The Election Commission cannot allow this. Parties like keADILan must be wiped out from this country. Parties that collaborate with the non-Malays to rob Malays of our political power must be exterminated.

If you think the Election Commission is there to manage fair elections then you are mistaken. It is there to ensure that political power does not fall into the hands of the Chinese. It is there to ensure that your children and grandchildren have a place in Malaysia and will not become second-class citizens in our own country.

But the Election Commission is not the only player in this whole conspiracy. I should know as I used to work in the National Registration Department and it was our job to issue identity cards. Without these identity cards the Election Commission can do very little. Umno decides how many voters it needs and where they are needed. We will then ‘generate’ these voters through the issuing of identity cards. The Election Commission then registers them in the respective constituencies based on the identity cards we issue.

So you see, I was very much a part of the system. And it was a system meant to ensure Malays remain lords of this land.

I hope I was able to shed some light on what, to you, must be a most perplexing situation. Never mind. You are young. Your blood is hot. Later in life you will realise and understand what I am saying. And one day you too will be telling your hot-blooded children what I am telling you now.

Dad

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Dear Dad,

Thank you for your letter of 24 March 2004, which just arrived by Pos Laju yesterday. Maybe from now on we should just use the regular postal service. At least it will arrive at the very latest in three days rather than six.

I must admit I was very surprised to receive your letter. I was at first afraid to open it lest it be some bad news from home. After all, you have never written to me before and this is the first time. So I suspected it surely could not have been any good news. After reading your letter I now realise why you chose to write rather than tell me to my face what you said in that letter.

I understand and respect your views on Ketuanan Melayu. Many of your generation, especially those who have served the government, share your same views so you are not alone. But my generation no longer holds dear the concept of Ketuanan Melayu.

You say we owe the government a debt for the education we have received. Are you saying you, I and grandfather, would never have received an education and would still be planting padi back in the kampong if not for the government? What about all those Africans and Latin Americans who live in third world countries just like us? They too are educated, in fact better educated than us. Do their countries also have a Ketuanan Melayu policy? If not, then how did they receive an education and how come they have a higher ratio of university graduates compared to Malaysia?

The only reason we need government assistance is because we have to pay for our education and the government gives us loans to finance our education. But if education were free, then we will not need any government assistance would we? We need government loans because there are not enough places in local universities so we have to go to an overseas university. And this costs money. But if we did not have to go overseas and could instead go to a local university then the problem of financing would be solved, as we will not need any.

One can argue that building universities cost money. How much are we talking about? In the last 25 years or so, our national petroleum company, Petronas, has earned an estimated RM500 billion to RM750 billion in revenue. The actual figure is still a mystery because Petronas needs to only report to the Prime Minister and need not table its accounts for public perusal, not even to Parliament. Could not one or two billion of that be used to build more universities? In fact, they could have easily spent ten billion without feeling the pinch and many universities could have been built with that amount of money.

As an example, look at China, a poor country that has to support 20% of the world’s population. China has more than 1,000 universities. Beijing alone, whose population is less than half of Malaysia’s, has more than 100 universities. If China can do it why can’t Malaysia? How many universities does Malaysia have? Going by Beijing’s ratio, we should have more than 200 universities. But we have less than 10% of that. Yet, on a per capita basis, we are richer than China.

To say the Malays would never receive an education unless we have a preferential treatment policy and unless the government hands out charity to the Malays is an insult to our race. We are admitting that the Malays are failures and can only succeed with government handouts. Considering that you are a proud Malay I would imagine you would be the last to admit this. I would imagine you would want to say that the Malays could succeed under any circumstances if just given a fair chance.

On your argument of ensuring the Malays do not lose their political domination, Dad, have you analysed the latest election results? The ruling party created 25 additional parliamentary seats. At the same time they redrew the election boundaries. Let us take one example, Kuantan.

In the past, Kuantan had about 70,000 voters. Then the Election Commission shifted about 20,000 Malay voters to Paya Besar. With the ‘loss’ of 20,000 Malay voters, Kuantan suddenly became a ‘Chinese’ seat so the ruling party had to field a Chinese candidate in that constituency, which traditionally had been an UMNO or Malay seat.

This was done all over the country. In an attempt to defeat PAS and keADILan, both who depended on Malay votes, Malay majority constituencies were carved up and turned into ‘Chinese’ seats. And what is the result of all this?

In the recent election, UMNO won only 96 seats in Peninsular Malaysia and another 11 in Sabah, a total of 107 out of 219, and slightly less than half the seats in Parliament. And this is supposed to be UMNO’s best performance ever. Imagine what it would look like if UMNO performed badly, say like in 1999?

UMNO, which at one time had the majority seats in Parliament, are now just the largest minority. If you want to include the PAS and keADILan seats as ‘Malay’ seats, though they do not regard themselves as Malay parties, then the total would be 115 seats.

In what way do you say UMNO’s or the Election Commission’s interest is merely to ensure that Malay political domination is not eroded. The way I see it, the manipulation of electoral boundaries has done exactly this -- erode Malay political domination.

Now, I am not propagating or supporting the idea of Malay political domination mind you. I am just showing you that your argument to justify the Gerrymandering and rampant cheating in the last election as necessary in the interest of Malay political domination does not hold water. What it has done instead is to give the non-Malays a stronger voice in Parliament.

Allow me to paint this hypothetical scenario. What if the non-Malay parties, even those in the ruling coalition, gang up on UMNO? And what if PAS and keADILan side with the non-Malay parties in the interest of multi-racial politics, or at best, do not side with anyone? Would your UMNO then still be able to defend the Ketuanan Melayu policy with less than half the seats in Parliament?

So you see, your loyalty to UMNO based on the notion that it is defending Malay rights and privileges is flawed. UMNO can only do so as long as the rest do not mount any challenge and are prepared to live and let live. However, once they decide to change things and make a move to end the Ketuanan Melayu, then there is very little UMNO can do.

I know, Dad, this fact has never occurred to you. You have always believed that UMNO is invincible and commands the majority voice in Parliament. This is not so. In fact, even the policy of Malay as the national language and Islam as the official religion can be abolished if the majority in Parliament wishes for this to happen. Then whom does UMNO turn to? The rulers? We must remember that the rulers are no longer required. Even if they do not sign the law it will still automatically become law with or without their signatures.

Tengku Razaleigh Hamzah pointed this out in the late 1980s when he opposed the Constitutional Crisis engineered by UMNO, which, may I add, our new Prime Minister, Pak Lah, too opposed. Tengku Razaleigh said, what if one day UMNO loses its majority in Parliament and the non-Malays seek to remove Malay as the national language and Islam as the official religion? Now, said Tengku Razaleigh, it cannot be done without the rulers’ unanimous consent. But once the amendments to the constitution are made and the rulers’ consent is no longer required, then the Malays face the danger of losing their language and religion plus their special rights and privileges.

More than twenty years ago Tengku Razaleigh saw this coming. He knew UMNO would one day lose its majority in Parliament and the only thing left for the Malays would be their Raja-Raja Melayu. Today, what Tengku Razaleigh predicted has happened.

I must repeat that I do not subscribe to the concept of Ketuanan Melayu. You do, Dad. I just want to point out that if the only reason you support UMNO is to defend the Ketuanan Melayu, then that reason no longer exists. The Ketuanan Melayu will remain not because UMNO says so. It will remain because the non-UMNO Parliamentarians in Barisan Nasional allow it to.

In the light of this, is there any longer any reason to continue supporting UMNO?

Your son

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written by parsona, July 16, 2009 15:10:43
But dad, we are supposed to be Muslims first and last. Islam says we should treat everyone equally. So why do you oppose keADILan fighting for equality? Man-made contracts are but just a piece of paper. Our contract with God is much more important than anything else.
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written by ibabonma, July 16, 2009 15:10:45
I am sure "DAD" is a lecturer, a goon at Biro Tata Negara (BTN).


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written by sydput, July 16, 2009 15:24:28
Who needs university degrees? Universities are just fleecing the rakyat.
What we need is an education system or apprenticeship system that will allow the person to attain their maximum potential at the age of 16.
The west have this education set up. Hence cesc fabregas/Pele plays proffesional football around 16 years old. Same with Michael Jackson.
Bill Gates rejected university education.
The younger the person earns, the more the state will get in terms of tax revenue.
In Malaysia, University graduates start work around 24 years old. That is 8 years of wasted time and govenrment spending. Even after all that education, some cannot get work and the govenrment gives them more courses to pursue, supposedly in entrepreneurship.
What we need is a total revamp of our thinking and working system.
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written by Steven Tan, July 16, 2009 15:27:33
Dear Brothers and Sisters,

To over come this problem and to put a full stop once and for all.. Leader like TGNA, DSAI, Datuk Zaid, YB LGE, YM RPK, Datuk Nizar, YB Nurul Izzah and all the good leader from PR Goverment should lead our country. I'm very sure they will prove to the world that there's a BETTER WAY to run a country in more prosper and successful way and more important....IN REAL PEACEFUL WAY where we Malaysians regardless or our race, language, religion can live in harmony

Guy, do you agree with me?
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written by fknajib, July 16, 2009 15:40:48
Interesting article and how it still seem so relevant after 5 years. We have another election since then and we have denied BN the two third majority it needed. Is this trending towards what is hinted in this article? That UMNO, ultimately, the current opposition could be in power? Would we repeal the official status of malay as the national language? Islam as the official religion? Maybe come GE13 we would have a clearer picture. Looking south, at Singapore, its strange that younger generation of Singapore believes that English is the official language. This, an embarrassment, may not be a bad thing. Whats so important of an official language but to communicate in?
http://fakenajib.********.com
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written by hellosunshine, July 16, 2009 15:41:28
UMNO is courting PAS and some stupid PAS leaders are responding positively to their 'unity' overtures based on ketuanan Melayu and ketuanan agama. That's one of the reasons why some voters in Manik Urai voted for umno especially when they were handed big fat 'ang pows' before voting. Can't blame these folks because BN had purposely deprived the rakyat of a decent education with less than 20 universities after 52 years in power. Why do you think BN wants the rakyat to be poorly educated and blur? Hmmm... that's a tough question. smilies/grin.gif
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written by veseti, July 16, 2009 15:42:13
the idea is not abt education. its abt the mentality of the malay ppl. Its time to do away with race based ideas and embrace multiracial policies.
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written by johnT, July 16, 2009 15:50:16
It remind me of Quran saying that the first King Of Racist is Satan when he refuse to pay respect to a new race call human. And then God throw him away. Is UMNO follow the Satan step by the ketuananan Melayu?
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written by Thundercat Pink, July 16, 2009 16:00:30
I never get tired of reading this..
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written by RichPoon, July 16, 2009 17:19:04
Hi Dad,

Your thinking is out of date.
Most of my classmates of other races feel the same way I do.
We are living in a borderless world.
Half of them is already talking about leaving the country because of what is happening here.
Unless people like you wake up to the new realty, I am afraid our country will end up competing with countries like Zimbawe.
Good night dad.

Your loving son.
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written by Oscar Winner, July 16, 2009 17:56:08
Pa,

How about giving Johor to chinese which is nearer to LKY, and another state to Indians, and we malays take the rest?? That way, we solve all issues regarding race and religion. We will show the world that without the income tax from chinese we can still survive. We just focus on religion, Ketuanan Melayu and towering malays, and prove to the world that we are a supreme race on earth. There are so many things that we can achieve without all the chinese and indians. May be we can rent Johor to chinese and another state to indians. I think this is a better alternative, instead of them going back to china or india. At least we still can collect rental
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written by amjoem, July 16, 2009 18:01:01
Thanks YM RPK for repeating this 2004 article for our benefit. Great! This article is an eye-opener to the thousands of UMNOputras an also to all of us. UMNO should realise that we only pass through this path but once, hence any good that can be done must be done now. Don't do things against your conscience, "God is watching us".
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written by FFT, July 16, 2009 18:03:06
BREAKING NEWS:

http://www.malaysiakini.com/news/108637

The MACC Gestapo stormtroopers of the Uneducated Malayan Nazi Organization and Barisan Nazional have murdered a DAP exco's aide by throwing him off the 14th Floor of the Nazi units headquarters.

This is in line with Najib's aspirations of 1Murderer where all political opponents will be liquidated, and also in line with IGP Musa Hassan's PDRM that is chock-full of criminals and murderers (including two Special Forces men awaiting the gallows).
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written by raven1958, July 16, 2009 18:19:43
Should that Silent Roar be now...unsilenced.....
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written by Pakyeh, July 16, 2009 19:06:34
UMNO/BN is not interested in Ketuanan Melayu. Their real interest is "Ketuanan Perampok".

Read more "Pemerintahan Ali Baba dan 40 Perampok" at..

http://warongpakyeh.********.com
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written by storm62, July 17, 2009 02:06:34
another example of taking law in their own hands!

leadership by example? 1Malaysian Murderer!
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written by aplus, July 17, 2009 03:47:17
You know Pete, sometimes I wonder why the Malays still insist on using the terminology "anak haram" since time immemorial and till now remaining unchanged.

If they don't want H1N1, insisting on "selsema babi" instead, there's no reason why the "anak haram" couldn't be changed.

Why am I saying all this? You already know in the UK they don't use the terminalogy "illegitamate child" as such, but softened to fatherless child, single-parent child, so on and so forth.

So what happens to that child in the UK as far as his/her future is concerned? Treatment wise not any different to that of a legitimate child. They still get all the social benefits, and a social standing is ensured without the stigma. The point is the child is innocent.

In the UK, a corrupt official is considered "anak haram" in its true emotional (in our local) connotation, and an illegitimate child holds much more promise in comparison, much much nobler.

Tell me Pete, where does an "anak haram" end up if compared to a corrupt official in the Malay society/Malaysia if they can't be found in the street gutter?

Sorry for being off the mark.
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written by Taikohtai, July 17, 2009 08:45:30
Dad, now that BN is even afraid to contest in Penang, how about asking BN to cede Penang off like what Tunku did to Singapore? In just one year, LGE has outdone than what Gerakan did under 30 years of BN umbrellaship. Less Chinese also mean more Ketuanan Melayu right?
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written by YSLim, July 17, 2009 15:12:08
My dear children,

Please forgive us elder's wrongdoing. We are afraid of losing our income, as without it we will lose face. We are not able to buy Kancil/Proton, our national pride. You are not able to modify the exhaust pipe to make it sound nicer and deem faster. And you are not able to enjoy the road races and as that a champion will be born to pride Malaysia in F1.

Dear children, forgive us for not correcting the wrong, as we are afraid. Or we are "nonchalant" as we have education "the menara gading", we have NSHW to "jom cari makan", we are better now, ASTRO and JOM TV3, these is our production. WE always have something to be proud off.

Dear children, we hope that and you need to realise that NOW what is Universiti Malaysia compare with Oxford/Harvard! What is NSHW compare with MAGLEV super train. What is TV3 compare with JASZEERA. What is having F1 here compare with Ecclestone allowing F1 here? My dear children, forgive us for not teaching the value of humanity. Forgive us for selling our soul just for the sake of having an astronaut rather then provide you with 1st class R&D centre for your utilisation. We have forgotten that life now a day are getting tougher and forgive us for not able to tell you what is right of wrong & instead of telling you we are who & not who are we and telling why we negotiated with the "pendatang" instead of appreciating the "beauty of diversity".

Please forgive us for reinforcing the idea that "this country is ours and their presence is subject to a contract" Please forgive us to nurture the fear in you that you may loose your body/mind/soul religious ethicity language if our people are weak instead to nurture you to be a better human being who is able to walk shoulder to shoulder and head to head with anybody, be able to look at the other as human being rather than "a tribe" which is subjected to the "the contract" of our forefather.

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written by DontPlayGod, July 17, 2009 15:17:20
Say what you like, ketuanan Melayu is a reality in this country, even if UMNO is not around. The Tun has already ensured this when it asked the Malays to turn their production "factory" full on.
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written by A MI, July 17, 2009 22:13:03
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written by DontPlayGod, July 17, 2009 15:17:20
Say what you like, ketuanan .... is a reality in this country, even if UMNO is not around. The Tun has already ensured this when it asked the Malays to turn their production "factory" full on.

I won't say TDM's goal was so much for Ketuanan the Layu race but it was sweet revenge ( for what I do not know) but guess what...who are the jamban cleaners now? Who are the "sampah masyarakat"?
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written by trublumalaysian, July 17, 2009 23:31:57
written by A MI, July 17, 2009 22:13:03

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written by DontPlayGod, July 17, 2009 15:17:20
Say what you like, ketuanan .... is a reality in this country, even if UMNO is not around. The Tun has already ensured this when it asked the Malays to turn their production "factory" full on.


I won't say TDM's goal was so much for Ketuanan the Layu race but it was sweet revenge ( for what I do not know) but guess what...who are the jamban cleaners now? Who are the "sampah masyarakat"?

Gosh A Mi, I would like to add & hazard an academic guess here old chap. As far as true-blue malaysians are concerned; the sampah-masyarakat are the ones who have been molly-cuddled; cajoled, subjected to BTN doctrine's, milk-fed; crutch-led; breast-fed, balls-scrubbed and what-have-you's by; a government hell-bent on having the son's-of-the-soil on their knees begging for a blow-job and a good life.It's just that easy ...

I would be more contented counting the hairs on my scrotum more fulfilling than to live a life, subservient to the hypocrites in AMNO ..and without no Soul.
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written by anon, July 18, 2009 09:08:43
Son, please read dad's letter carefully. Read in between the lines.

This ketuanan stuff is all bull - a thing of the past and even the emerging educated Malays are now opposed to it. I am glad that these Malays have emerged along with the new breed of Chinese and Indians - who just want to get along with their Malay brothers and sisters. Respect each other and each others' religion and culture and customs and we shall beat the moronic mindset of the BN - who of course do not want all races to get along.

I walk down Nostalgia road - in the 50s and 60s - where we never thought of race and religion and all three major races were happy together.
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