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Thursday, 27 November 2008 11:21

By Marina Mahathir, The Nut Graph

IN October, I had posted on my blog my thoughts on Datuk Chamil Wariya's despicable short story based on a character very similar to DAP Member of Parliament (MP) for Seputeh, Teresa Kok.

I had wondered aloud whether there was a sexist element to recent incidents involving opposition MPs. Most of my commenters opined that there was nothing sexist about it, just the same old politics, and that indeed I was imagining things.

Still, I have to wonder. Since when have firebombs been thrown into anybody's garden in this country, regardless of their political beliefs? If this is a new phenomenon, how is it that in both cases they were aimed at women — Datuk Ambiga Sreenivasan, Chair of the Bar Council (albeit they got her address wrong), and Kok?

Has there ever been a case where a short story based on a character, so closely resembling a real-life person that there is no mistaking who she is, ended so violently? I don't recall any in recent memory. Would it have attracted the same attention had the lead protagonist been a man?

Even more recently, Datuk Tan Lian Hoe, Gerakan Wanita chief, was attacked by male MPs for some remarks she made about the New Economic Policy (NEP). The substance of her remarks aside, the attacks upon her seemed particularly vicious, as evidenced by the televised proceedings of Parliament that day. The man doing the attacking looked like he was ready to physically attack her, not just to dress her down verbally.

Not really an apology

Not that attacks on female MPs are anything new in Parliament. Most people can vividly recall the lewd remarks made by some male MPs aimed at their female counterparts. After public outcry, the male MPs only grudgingly apologised, if their utterances could even be called an "apology". Few other male MPs said much in defense of their female counterparts. The impression is that Parliament is full of braying hounds, laughing at women who squirm in a space the men obviously think of as only theirs.

Perhaps that is the core of the issue — men still think that politics is not really the place for women. If they have to be there at all, female politicians should be seen and not heard, and even then, only spouting sweet flatteries to their male leaders.

Exclusive boys' club

Crude jokes and leery one-liners are thus a form of sexual harassment. They are aimed at making the work environment so uncomfortable and hostile that women will be deterred from any ambitions to participate, or will be forced to quit. Thus will the boys' club of politics remain exclusively testosterone-powered.

Not only is the form of politics sexist in nature — it could be argued that even when politics does not relate directly to women, an element of machismo alien to female discourse is evident. It is surely no coincidence that incidences of keris-waving and other supremacist postures occur in male-dominated fora.

The person who called non-Malays pendatang and who then launched a whole chain of unsavoury events was certainly a strutting rooster of the worst kind. The fact that two of the "beneficiaries" of his strutting were a young female reporter and Kok is not coincidental.

Neither was the paternalistic excuse given by the minister in charge of arresting them under the Internal Security Act (ISA) that it was "for their protection". The protection excuse had never been used when men were arrested under the ISA. Whether it is merely a slip of the tongue in the case of the arrested women or underlying patriarchy at work is up for discussion.

But it must be said that within female political circles, supremacist talk is minimal, if it exists at all. Perhaps women are by necessity more concerned with the difficulties of gaining even the slightest smidgen of power — a result of male supremacy — that talking about racial supremacies seems irrelevant.

When women succumb

It is worthwhile to note, however, the case of the Perak state assemblywoman who caught people's attention by making a racist joke about Indians. Women will succumb to the temptations of race-baiting when in the company of men. One could postulate that this is merely to gain the attention of the men in order to advance one's own position. To join the braying hounds, one needs to bray as well.

Which leads us to muse on whether our political environment would be different if women ruled the roost. Trying to imagine the Malaysian political scene differently is hard — it is so dominated by both men and racial politics.

Unfortunately women in politics have only kowtowed to the system and have steadfastly refused to buck it. In the recent MCA elections, Datuk Dr Ng Yen Yen was elected the party's first female vice-president in its history. It was undoubtedly a remarkable achievement.


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Nevertheless, in the early days of nominations, Ng still felt the need to talk about canvassing the grassroots membership for their views on having a woman leader. Men never feel the need to ask if their sex matters because they know that being male is what gives them political currency.

But then Malaysia is not alone in this. In the recent US elections, the question in people's minds was whether Americans had any problem electing a black or a woman as president. We know the answer now but some people still feel that they would rather elect a man of any colour than a woman.

Others may point to the elevation of an unknown woman candidate for vice-president as proof that Americans, even Republicans, are making progress. But nothing could be further from the truth. Sarah Palin got her chance because she was a man's ideal female candidate — good looking, motherly, and untainted by modern feminist ideas.

When she became more assertive and therefore veered from the feminine, the carpet was pulled from under her. If Senator John McCain's campaign still thought Palin could offer a winning chance, women refused to fall for it, seeing the whole charade for what it was.

Maybe the sexism in Malaysian politics is all in my head. Maybe I am just imagining it. But I prefer to call it intuition

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written by Rainbowseahorse, November 27, 2008 11:58:35
My dear Marina,

No, it’s not in your imagination at all. Sexism is very much alive and kicking in Malaysian politics. As a matter of fact, sexism is in every facet of Malaysian society. It’s just that we Malaysian seldom venture into this realm in fear of having to deal with the radical changes that entails if we were to honestly and openly address the problem.
Yes, sexism is enshrine in most office books of ethics and even considered a violation of company’s rules & regulations. In reality, sexual harassments is quite rampart in every Malaysian offices and comes in many forms. And it’s going to be a long and difficult task to effect real changes on our chauvinistic Malaysian males.
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written by Celestial, November 27, 2008 12:41:49
Well reasoned, well argued, balanced and articulate. Well done, Marina. I believe in giving credit where credit is due.

I was brought up in a generation where even my mother thought that her place in life was to have kids, bring them up and serve my father. Father was the bread winner and to succeed, he must not be burdened with menial tasks that the women should do instead. She even refused to allow us boys take out the garbage or clean the toilets because that's not a man's job if they are succeed in life. Superstitious hoohahs many will say. However, if one is brought up under such circumstance, it is not rocket science to see women being treated as they have been for centuries. Breaking the glass ceiling has been a monumental task for women.

I am grateful that I now live in a country where its society recognise women and men as equal. I do take out the garbage now, only because my wife works darn hard and much longer hours than I do and sad to say brings home more bacon (apologies to my muslim readers but you know what I mean) than I do.

I think it will take awhile before Malaysia grow up so that women can have equal standing as men. My wife used to tell all our friends, that I am head of the family, she is just the neck. This might be the strategy that Malaysian women should adopt. BTW, I am still married to my women after 37 years and I still get away with more than I should.
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written by K W Waran, November 27, 2008 13:13:59

Dear Bro' Celestial, You are absolutely right there, Sir.

Sad to say that some of the so-called "Macho Men" forget that they were "carried" around and well nourished with so much tender loving care by their Mothers from the time they were individually, a mere foetus till birth and thereafter.

I personally think that the women/lady folks are far more "Macho" in terms of strength and resolve than some or most of the men folk. The only difference is they do not go around flexing their respective muscles. But, they having nerves of "steel" is an indisputable fact and I personally do not bloody care if our menfolk think otherwise.

Bro' Celestial have illustrated very well in terms how his good wife juggles very well both her career and her role as a spouse, mother and a homemaker. And there are many fine ladies with such qualities out there. By the end of the day, they feeling absolutely exhausted would be an understatement. That is precisely the time when these "machos" flex their muscles and give their hardworking darlings a good massage and mark my word, that gesture will be truly appreciated and will go a long way in cementing their respective marital institution.

It's about time all men become truly "Matured" and start treating every women/ladies irrespective of age as their equal and give them the respect and honour that they rightfully and legitimately deserve.

Have a nice day, Folks.

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written by mucking fuddled, November 27, 2008 13:18:38
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written by Alice, November 27, 2008 13:21:36
Did you see how the PEWARIS demonstrators with the 'permit' chase a woman? I was sooo shocked and wondered about our developed status with MEN like that. Disgusting.smilies/sad.gif
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written by Victorya98, November 27, 2008 13:25:56
women in msia are a patient lot! wait till all hell breaks loose smilies/kiss.gif

ps: come on sisters, we are not livin' in a 3rd world country...time to flush out the macho pigs out of their comfort zones and give em a taste of their own medicine...

ms ambiga sreenivasan and ms teresa kok....i salute you for your outspokenness!

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written by Victorya98, November 27, 2008 13:26:32
of course ms marina mahathir too...u really stand out among the lot of us smilies/wink.gif
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written by truthbespoken, November 27, 2008 13:56:46
See the very different reception for daughter and father in Malaysia Today? It's all about the daughter treating issues with a judicious mind and approach. There is no ill-will or racial intent on her part and it's always done with consistency.

I only wish if the retired father could now be more like the daughter in approach on politics in his twilight years..sigh.


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written by Celestial, November 27, 2008 14:40:09
Brother KW Warren

Thank you. Please call me John. I think I am a SNAG (Sensitive New Age Guy)

Here is another reason why I am still married to my woman. javascript:void(0);
She wrote this poem for me yesterday:

An Australian Love Poem
(Who said Australian men aren't romantic?)

Of course I love ya darlin
You're a bloody top-notch bird
And when I say you're gorgeous
I mean every single word

So ya bum is on the big side
I don't mind a bit of flab
It means that when I'm ready
There's somethin there to grab

So your belly isn't flat no more
I tell ya, I don't care
So long as when I cuddle ya
I can get my arms round there

No sheila who is your age
Has nice round perky breasts
They just gave in to gravity
But I know ya did ya best

I'm tellin' ya the truth now
I never tell ya lies
I think its very sexy
That you've got dimples on ya thighs

I swear on me nanna's grave now
The moment that we met
I thought you was as good as
I was ever gonna get

No matter what u look like
I'll always love ya dear
Now shut up while the footy's on
And fetch me another beer

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written by Kaneeneh, November 27, 2008 15:35:24
Aiya these women not Bumi-what? Why the Bumi police and the Bumi Gomen would say anything to save their hides? Like you, big Bumi woman, thank you for saying something, but what they dare do to you? Never mind one, let them all rot. Who cares??
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written by Bigjoe99, November 27, 2008 16:45:20
Sexism not in UMNO when their core value is hypocrisy? Does Marina know what sexism is?
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written by batsman, November 27, 2008 16:46:46
Men have only their labour to be exploited. Women have their labour as well as their bodies. That is why everyone wants a piece of the action. Women are doubly cursed. That is why some men feel like heroes when they attack women. They feel they can't lose.
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written by Mr Smith, November 27, 2008 17:05:11
Had Marina named names, we could have seen that the sexist are from UMNO and they are Malays. I am not aware of a single instance when a non-Malay MP threw sexist remarks at a female MP. Remember, even rape victims have not been spared by these UMNO MCPs. It's not fair to paint all males with one brush. Let's be specific.
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written by unomalaysia, November 27, 2008 17:18:15
MM, yes sexism is certainly alive especially in amno. Remember the bocor and lubang amno MPs. These jackasses forgot their mothers are women. I am a man and at times a MCP but I have learn to treat women as equal and I have to thank my mother and wife for it. It was my mom who worked hard so that my sister and I had decent educations. And in my own home, my wife is always the level headed one, always calm and sensible in a crisis where I would probably have gone ballistic. And I am happy to say my wife is my best friend and the person who can read my mind (this can be unnerving!). Imagine, a woman can do what no man can ever do, give birth and she put her life on the line every time she does that. Wonder if those a**holes know that the pain during childbirth is the most extreme. Also have you ever seen a mother protecting her children in danger? Know why in the animal kingdom the female is always the fiercer one when she has babies around? So I will never think any less of a women. They are different but certainly not the lesser of the 2 species.
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written by hanisma, November 27, 2008 19:01:41
Alice, those PERWARIS demonstrators and a handsome number of Amno MPs are mere
male chauvinistic pigs! I salute you, Marina.
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written by Jit Dharma, November 27, 2008 22:08:09
Marina, the token squeak liberal.How can do more than squeak when
daddy-o was/is the biggest thug this country could ever vomit up. My
foot!!!
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written by benny loh, November 28, 2008 02:30:15
ONE MORE-MASUK,MASUK
http://malaysiancartoons.*****...ament.html
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